August 3, 2020
My sister sent in
a group text a photo of my dad which grossly showed how irritated his eyes have
become since a recent surgery he had done on the lower lids of both eyes. He was prescribed ointments to place
routinely in both eyes as part of his post-surgery rehabilitation. He looked horrible. His eyes were glowingly red, and tears
continually dripped from each eye. I
immediately called him. Sure, it was
three hours earlier in California, but I had to check on him.
Men generally
don’t complain about their health, especially as they get older. They usually just roll with the punches and
accept everything that happens to them as part of growing older. My dad fits that mold to a tee. During our conversation he let me know that
his eyes didn’t hurt or tear if he kept them closed. “Dad,” I said, “That’s the same as being
blind!” I pushed him for information regarding his next appointment, which was
in two days, on Wednesday.
When he has an
appointment, in traditional male fashion, he does not disclose all of his
symptoms to not draw attention any interpretation of weakness or inconvenience.
I emphasized that he must provide as much information as he possibly could,
even suggesting he let them know about issues not even related to his
eyes. The big piece that he must not
omit is the sheer fact that this discomfort and rainstorm coming from his eyes
began after the surgery. He promised me
he would, so I immediately called my sister who would be taking him to his
appointment and made her promise that SHE would provide all this information to
the doctor. She let me know that since COVID, only the patients are allowed to
see the doctor and she must wait outside.
No, unacceptable. She must insist going in with him to insure all
pertinent information is shared. I told her to buy a damn hazmat suit like the
Disney employee wore when he picked up my envelope to mail. Go overboard, but
do not let him see the doctor alone.
This is another
example isolation I feel while living in the bubble. At times I have an empty feeling in my
stomach living this extraordinary existence.
I can’t help anyone outside in the real world. This helpless feeling causes uneasiness where
there is no cure. Granted, I have two
brothers and two sisters that live close to my parents and they are able to
help them at a moment’s notice, and when I am home in Tucson there is still not
a lot I can do because of the distance.
But being trapped inside often makes me feel useless. Useless to those on the outside at least.
The television
report that aired the previous night resulted in countless responses on
Facebook from my friends. It was
heartwarming to read the various comments from everyone. One in particular came from a former employee
of mine I had while I was working in the aerospace industry, something I did
for over 31 years. He wrote, “Darrin
Pierce is the best boss I ever had and now he is locked down in the NBA bubble...”
That made me feel really, really good.
It’s wonderful to get that pat on the ass now and then. It is truly appreciated.
All of us Turner
guys are keeping a watchful eye on major league baseball. After the NBA playoffs are complete, we are
scheduled to move on to the baseball playoffs. Turner has the rights to cover
the baseball playoffs much in the same manner as they do with basketball. We
would cover the playoffs right up to the World Series, which Fox would host.
With the recent COVID outbreak in baseball, each day the possibility of us
working in the fall grows smaller.
Baseball has done
nothing in comparison to the NBA when it comes to reducing the chance of
contracting the virus that is around us. At a minimum their players and staff
should be isolated at one location while playing at home, and one location when
playing away from home. But baseball is
not doing that. Players can go home at
night if they are hosting the games and there are virtually no restrictions of
their movements or their contacts. The only thing they have done is stopped
fans from entering the stadiums. How
hard would it be to have baseball players operate for the time being the same
way NBA players are?
In my opinion,
after living the success of the NBA bubble, MLB can easily restrict player
movement and exposure by requiring them to live in a team hotel, travel on a
team bus, a team plane, and only have access to stadiums where they are
scheduled to play. That’s it. No restaurants, bars, going home to see their
families, stopping for gas. If we can do
it, they can do it. There are a lot more
livelihoods at stake other than their own.
Their actions appear, at least in my eyes, selfish.
Can you tell I’m
not working again today? I did receive a
phone call from a publicist that was contacted by a friend of mine after he saw
the local coverage of my experience in the NBA restart. The publicist thought
it might be a fun idea to share my thoughts and experiences on a daily blog or
some other avenue of instant communication.
I had never participated in anything of the sort so I sent her samples
of what I had written thus far during my confinement. I had been writing about five pages per day,
never really expecting anything to come of it other than allowing me to document
my days and kill time when necessary.
How cool would that be if someone else was interested in what I had to
say?
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